dude, Oliver, I know this is something usually said to me but:
"dude, you think too much."
you can out-think yourself right outta having a good experience; sure maybe I'm just trying to talk you into doing drugs... lol
but get some of that "fuck-it" into your life man!
everyone could do better with some more "fuck-it" in their lives; maybe except for me. I am operating at near 100% fuck-it these days;
my buddy was like
"dude I have a whole bag of DMT..."
"fuck let's do it!" was my answer
but he's like
"nah man I've been researching it for weeks and it says you gotta be really mentally stab...."
"fuck it man let's do it!"
lol
he's an ESTJ-- the important part is the "J-type" where he analyzes things to death;
and I'm a 100% openminded P-type
but anyways; you do seem like the type to over-think things to the point of it interfering with the fun in life;