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FleurDeLis
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PostSubject: The Slut   Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:34 am

I stumbled over this pic a few days ago and while I think it makes a great point point, it also made me think.




Women have come a long way in terms of fighting for gender equality and we are not quite where we should be yet but we are getting awfully close. How far should we go? Is it really worth exploring every area that has traditionally been reserved for men?

I don't think it is right to call a women a slut if men act that way all the time without experiencing derogatory remarks. However, I'm not sure it's good or smart to fight for a woman's "right" to behave like a guy (or better some guys, cause they really are not all like that).

Hmmmm ... tricky for me to hold a position in this case.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Fri Dec 09, 2011 11:53 am

Hmmmm - I guess the question would really be, would being a slut (however you define it) be the best expression of who and what you really are?

From an equality standpoint - it makes perfect sense of course - what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

From a higher purpose standpoint, being a slut is about as "good" as being a bastard (and being proud of it).

Gues it all depends on perspective.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Fri Dec 09, 2011 12:23 pm

I don't think it's good for either the goose or the gander. But you are right, that's my perception and not necessarily applicable to or in agreement with the whole.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Sat Dec 10, 2011 11:22 am

The problem I see is trying to force equality on different things.
Equal things should be treated equally and different things should be treated differently.
In humans, even identical twins are different and have to be treated differently.
It is important not to confuse equal treatment with equal rights.
It can be very complicated.

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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Sat Dec 10, 2011 3:21 pm

Oliver wrote:
The problem I see is trying to force equality on different things.
Equal things should be treated equally and different things should be treated differently.


I absolutely agree.

Things is, it is hard to define in which ways we are the same or different; if we tie this to concepts of value or worth, it gets even more complicated. There is no reason (imo) to pay one gender more than the other for a desk job that has no particular physical demands. Yet, females still receive less money than males in the same position (statistically! there are of course exceptions to the rule). At the same time, I don't know why a skinny and comparably weak women should hold a position in (lets say) a fire-fighter team ... sometimes differences matter, other times they do not.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Sun Dec 11, 2011 8:36 pm

I used to set off a lot of males in my life, due to having had the confidence and airs of a man. I've learned since then to tone those down for the sake of being in harmony, but if I am upset about something or need to question something, the intensity and drive come back in full force.

I'm not going to go gung ho and start being a hardcore feminist. I guess the importance is in deciding what it is I want to do and what I'm realistically capable of accomplishing.

Having said that, I think I'm a strong female that is capable of being an individualist, but I work better with someone or in a supporting role. I dislike the notion that I should be bumped to support just because of my gender, especially if the person who I'm working with is incapable of leading anything or knowing what from what. Just thoughts.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Tue Dec 13, 2011 3:52 pm

I'm not a hardcore feminist by any means either, in fact, I find them a bit appalling. However, I do not subordinate based on gender, not even for the sake of harmony. There are few individuals in my in-law family who have sexist tendencies and it drives me up the wall if they make derogatory comments with respect to female intelligence/capabilities or if the ignore input altogether just cause it's coming from a female.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Tue May 29, 2012 3:50 pm

When a woman acts like a pervert its doesn't always mean she's a slut.
I for one have all brothers and men folk around me all my life so i think and talk like a dude, but its not like I'm gonna take down every guy that comes my way. I am a very loving, but real aggressive, but i also have respect for myself when it comes to sex, i don't lay down with anyone, in fact I'm more of a funny tease like SAM.(SecretAgentMan)..LOL


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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Tue May 29, 2012 4:00 pm

Scuse me but a woman who's not a total perv in bed....it's the same as a man who can't get it up....don't bother lol....and someone who has the guts to fully enjoy her sexuality and don't give a shit about this fucked up society's hypocrisy is a normal and healthy individual, all those who supress urges because they are considered "slutty" by the status quo on purpose (imposed guilt control etc etc) actually create inner mental conflict which invariably leads to psychological problems. Life's too short for such stupid mentalities...
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Tue May 29, 2012 4:26 pm

Well once you jump in the sac that's a different story all together, if one gets so lucky..lol
I'm just saying because i know what i can do, I'm very aggressive when it comes to something i want. I am determined, and i wont stop, but will i go and do it with everyone? Hell no..lol I am quite picky, I've got to chase i don't like being chased, and if the man gives me a good game of cat and mouse, that would turn me on ...ahahaha poor guy
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Tue May 29, 2012 5:56 pm

yes everyone posted above me belongs in this thread.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Wed May 30, 2012 9:00 am

Excellent, you are in good company then ...
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Wed May 30, 2012 9:30 am

i wonder if pornus hornus is registered on my site ever

and if not i wonder why not...

lulz.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Wed May 30, 2012 12:49 pm

GenericTylerDurden wrote:
i wonder if pornus hornus is registered on my site ever

and if not i wonder why not...

lulz.

no he hasn't and no he wont be. :evil:
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Wed May 30, 2012 11:41 pm

lol

1st of all your intuition sucks

2nd of all your control of people in your life is laughable-- A) because you try so hard to control and B) because you FAIL so hard given your efforts.

I don't even try I just attract.
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Thu May 31, 2012 3:04 pm

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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Thu May 31, 2012 5:27 pm

lolbot

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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Thu May 31, 2012 5:35 pm

ill pray for you Rufio, you are possessed by Baal
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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Thu May 31, 2012 5:44 pm

Fuck me


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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Thu May 31, 2012 5:54 pm

... again


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PostSubject: Re: The Slut   Thu May 31, 2012 10:47 pm

Deviant wrote:
ill pray for you Rufio, you are possessed by Baal
Don't worry, wait until I get my hands on him
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